Hi. Thank you for sharing your story about Stan. I can personally say, "I know exactly what you all went through." My father, Ben Owens, passed on October 3, 2007 from the exact same brain tumor. As I wws reading about Stan's story, it was like reading about my dad's story. My dad was diagnosed at the age of 49 with a 'mass' on his brain (he had a MRI done). He suffered with terrible headaches for a maybe few weeks or less. At first he thought it was because of the 'heat' that summer or where he worked. He worked as a steel worker for 28 years. Unfortunately,it was worst than he thought. Even with the headaches he really didn't tell us about them. I remember he slept all the time. I guess wishing it would go away. Anyway, the Nuero removed as much as he could (August 18, 2006, I believe) The doctor stated that it was a messy' tumor and sharwd with my dad that it was malignant. He went through radiation and chemo as well. He even visited the Cancer Research Center of America in Okalahoma for a 2nd opinion. At least there they gave him more hope. Anyway my dad struggeled a little bit, but he kept pushing and fighting to live. He even tried a another kind of treatment, Temodar (a pill). He finally started going down in May 2007, a week after Mother's Day. The tumor had come back aggressively and he had to undergo a 2nd major brain surgery in June 2007. The doctor's gave him up. He was admitted into hospice for almost a week, until he came back around and started talking again. He did talk and eat aqain, but he never walked after the 2nd surgery. He was also having major seizures too. We finally brought him home July 14, 2007 and cared for him until he passed October 3, 2007. He passed at the age of 51. Now my family are almost at a year of his passging and we miss him "greatly' and honestly it sometimes hard to believe that he is gone, but all I can say is God is Good and we are making it each day. Thank you again for sharing your story. Now I know that other families that have dealt with this and it's very difficult thing to see a loved one endure. It does feel good to talk about it. It helps me with the hearling process. God bless you all. |